Marriage In Islam
Marriage in Islam is a beautiful affair that reflects love, respect, and commitment. The journey begins months or even weeks before the wedding day, with meticulous planning to make every moment perfect. From selecting the ideal wedding dress in the perfect color to crafting the intricate pattern of the wedding card, every detail requires immense thought and effort. Often, it feels like a whirlwind of days and hours filled with excitement and even a bit of loss of sleep.
The wedding card, though just a piece of paper, carries profound meaning. While some may see it as a fancy invitation destined to be binned after the event, others treasure it as a token of memory that deserves to be preserved. Amid the busyness of life, these small tokens of memory lovingly remind us of the shared joy and moments that make such an event unforgettable.
The main purpose of life
In Islam, marriage is a sacred bond that helps a Muslim achieve the ultimate goal of life — to please Allah. It is an important milestone where two individuals join to complete half of their faith, creating a life full of precious memories. The wedding day marks the beginning of this journey, where the focus remains on the true purpose: building a life that aligns with faith and devotion to Allah.
Nikah: The Path to Jannah
Nikah is a sacred bond in Islam that unites a husband and wife with the mercy and love of Allah, fostering harmony in their hearts. It’s an extremely significant act, with a beautiful hadeeth emphasizing that a believer chooses a spouse based on faith and piety, reflecting the true value of marriage. Like a garment, spouses are a covering for each other, hiding flaws and supporting through weakness. This union is a favor from Allah, guiding towards the ultimate goal of pleasing Him and entering Jannah, the highest gardens. As noted in Ahmed, Tirmizi, and Ibn Majah, a grateful heart and a pious tongue help a man and his better half grow in faith, making Nikah a step toward divine success. Our Courses also offer insights to strengthen this journey, with a monthly fee for continuous learning.
How to Plan This Blessed Day?
Marriage in Islam is a blessed affair that should be planned meticulously, keeping the Sunnah in mind. The big day is not just about celebration but about choosing a pious partner who will help you cultivate character and beautify Ihsan in your life. While it is essential to enjoy the goodness of this world and the hereafter, it is equally important to remain moderate in spending and avoid frivolous parts of a wedding. Tend to every detail with attention to your duties to Allah Subhanahu wa ta’ala, and let the Qur’an guide you. Dua plays a significant role; recite, “Rabbana hab lana min azwajina wa dhurriyatina qurrata ayunin wa-jalna lil-muttaqina imama,” seeking comfort in your spouses and offspring.
By being mindful of your heart and focusing on the teachings of Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu Alaihi wa Sallam, you can create a home filled with remembrance, peace, and happiness. Such a home becomes a place of delight, helping spouses live happily forever, bi iznillah, with an earnest hope for the sweetest reunion in Jannah. Let this comprehensive and beautiful preparation ensure your spouses are a grace in this world and a source of the righteous home you look forward to in the next.